Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Is Marriage for Everyone?

Marriage is not for everyone. If one is free-spirited and care free overall, he or she should think over the decision before getting married super carefully. Being married requires lots of give and take on the part of both partners. There are personal interests one may develop over time, but if it starts to detract time from the husband or children, one must reconsider his or her intentions.

The union of marriage is ordained by our Creator. When a wedding takes place, a covernant, or an agreement, is made between the two creatures, along with their Creator. If no sacrifice, unselfishness, labor, or love, etc, goes into a marriage, nothing but heartache and turmoil can be expected to come out of it.

Children are gifts from our Creator. They are so precious. They really are extensions of Mom and Pop. We are their very first teachers. So, beware, Parents. Whatever you say, you will find it being repeated at the most unexpected times. It doesn't matter if things were said in jest or in a more serious tone, it will be repeated just the same.

There is no institution on earth quite like the instution of marriage. But, think carefully about what you are getting into. No one knows what lies ahead; seek premartial conselling to obtain a sneak preview. You just may not take the plunge.

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