Social Butterfly versus Clinging Vine

I'm sure it's in the genes, that special something that makes one person a social butterfly, flitting from one personality to another; they seem to blend in with everyone. They are so popular and have many acquaintances.

On the other end of the totem pole, there's the clinging vine personality.
They seem to operate with a bird's eye view on life. They can only accept one person as a close associate at a time, and they are so desperate when dealing with that one person, until they actually do the unthinkable; they drive the person away from them with their clinginess.

Then the clingy person usually have a great meltdown, accusing the social butterfly-type of abandoning her. The butterfly-type is so surprised. It was not her intention to leave anyone out of things. She just enjoy the company of everyone, a real people-lover.

Doggy Dayz

I heard my dog, Choca, barking playfully. I wondered what was he after.
Now Choca shares the fenced-in backyard with his adopted canine brother, Slick.
They each have their own house to sleep in, but for some reason, they prefer sharing one house at a time.

Sometimes they'll sleep in the igloo-shaped house, and at other times, they'll use the regular dog house. Yesterday morning, Choca was the first to come out of the house and stretch, ready for another day. Slick was apparently trying to get another nap.

Choca waited for Slick to come out to play with him for as long as he could.
Then he stuck his head in the house and started to bark playfully to Slick, his tail wagging all the while. No immediate response from Slick. Choca stopped for a little while, then he resumed his mission; trying to get Slick to come out and play! So cute, if you're tuned in to dogs like I am.

How Do I Rid The Garden From Nutgrass?

Nutgrass is a pest that can't be stopped with ordinary measures. You need to go an extra mile to be rid of that. Over the years, we've chopped it,
dug it up by its roots, tilled as deep as the tiller would go, then raked it
off and burned it.

The nutgrass would quickly pop back up in the garden as if absolutely nothing had been done. I really think we need to work on the garden plot for at least one year to get rid of the nut grass once and for all.

We were advised to treat the plot with rock salt when the garden is dry,
then barely wet it down with the hose. Not too much water , or the salt
will become weak and ineffective. Or, as another source mentioned, that
sugar would produce the same results as the salt. Either method, if they work would not hurt the vegetables if we plant shortly after the treatments.

Pollen Season

it's that time of year again! Pollen time! The cars are yellow; as are the porch and chairs. I have to cover my face to sweep and dust the porch
furniture every day.

I don't enjoy itching and scratching, so I can't hang my laundry on the clothes line, otherwise the pollen will settle into my clothes,and we'll be scratching and itching for days to come. Thank goodness, the season is short, and will be over in no time.

I adore this time of year; nice, warm, and peaceful days, cool, lovely nights. Can one ask for more? I'm putting in my bid for pollen-free spring days and nights. But, all said and done, spring is my season.

Where's Real Peace?

There is so much unrest in the world today. The more simpler life has become, the more complicated it really is. The new technology is being made to make things easier, but, more times than not, it's not being used for the purposes it was intended. Pedophiles, stalkers, scammers, etc., all make the internet a scary place.

Using all this gadgetry while operating a vehicle, has resulted in the unnecessary loss of life. Connecting so readily with old friends, new
'friends', and/or ex-lovers, have been, or, are the cause of many broken relationships and homes. Are these tools bringing you real peace of mind?

These tools are wonderful if used properly. But, they can produce devastating results if they are being used for the wrong intents and purposes. How wired up and connected are You?

Preparing For The Garden

It is time to start preparing the soil for this season's garden. I'm already thinking of fresh tomatoes, potatoes, onions, carrots, zuchinna, yellow squash, eggplants, okra, etc. We are in the process of clearing our garden spot from the leftover dry weeds from last fall.

We'll then rake the whole thing off, till the soil once, add lime and fertilizer, then

till it again; then make the rows to be planted. We'll rotate the vegetables. We won't plant the same vegetables in the same rows as we did last year. Then, as the little plants start to shoot up, we'll have to wrestle with weeds for the duration of the garden.

There is much joy to be had in preparing a garden plot and watching it grow.
I get much satisfaction from seeing things grow. I like the idea of knowing that I had a small part in arranging for things to grow and produce.
The real beauty of it all is when those delectable vegetables are all prep ared to be devoured by me.

Pre-Valentine's Day

Do you have an other-wordly lover? Is it your husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, or any significent other in your life? Well, aren't you blessed!
There are individuals out there that just can't seem to attract anyone's attention to them in the Love Department. Sad? You bet!

A very close friend of mine, a few years ago, uttered these words to me between many tears, "All of my life I have looked for some one to love only me unconditionally, but I never found them. They always wanted me to perform for them on their terms. They were never interested in what I wanted. I really needed attention from them, but I never got it".

If you truly love your mate, make a serious effort to find out the little things that pleases him/her. Maybe it's something as simple as just listening to him/her. It could very well be that he/she wants your attention or your thoughts on a new endeavor that they want to try. Maintaining a romance is like managing a bank account: If you don't put anything in the account, you can't draw money out when you really need to.
Take the time to be patient, kind, attentive, and loving, caring. You will reap many wonderful rewards!